LoL! Lesson of Life?

Yes, I'm running from my papers.

The mid semester ends today!

It ended on Friday 22nd for me though. Yohoo!

I'm planning to go out with my two KARET this Monday and I have just realized that I have many papers to do. *sigh*

On Sunday I've promised one of my friend to go to an event, but I came home late and there's no much time to get ready and go because my house is quite far away, so I cancelled it and just sleep because Sunday is just too tiring for me.

I woke up at about 23.00 and checked my phone, and there was a message from my friend telling me to do a part of our group project and swoosh!  I remember every paper I have to do.

And now I had read few but my worksheet is still blank....

Anyway, I'm going to write about some of my thoughts.

It's not wrong to listen to parents' words because first, they're older than you and wiser.

Second, they had so much experience and they mostly know how to handle certain situation, they know how to solve certain problem they've experienced.

Third, they know you since you're born.  They know all about you although they can't know what exactly you're thinking but they can guess it and it's right sometimes.

But...

Should I listen to someone who nags constantly?

a man tells a blind to go few steps forward. will the blind do what the man tell if he knows that the man close his eyes because he doesn't want to see?
a child tells his parents how to fix the car.will the father do as his child says to fix their broken car?

What I'm thinking is..
How can you listen to someone that tell you to do this and don't do that but the person itself keep doing that and doesn't want to do this.
For example if someone tells you not to smoke but he keeps smoking, isn't it just weird?
Maybe we will say that smoking is personal choice, it's okay.  Maybe that someone just don't want the other suffer like itself because he can't stop smoking and his health is getting worse.
But what if we get advice from someone in our life, like making an important decision that we can't know the risks yet.
Like a man tells a blind to go forward but he himself doesn't want to see what's in front of him and close his eyes.
Why the blind man has to believe the man who doesn't want to see?
Of course the blind will ask advice from someone who opens their eyes and know what's in front of him.

Then for me, I will listen advices from everyone, but I will choose what I will do by myself.
Can you believe someone's advice that doesn't really know you?
I mean they only talk what they know without knowing what you're facing now, it's rather hard to be done.
Like a child who tells his parents how to fix the car, maybe his father will find something true from what the child says, but the child is still young, he doesn't know anything about car and machinery.
So I can say his father will listen what his children says, but won't do as he says because he knows more than his little child.

We have to be humble and listen to people's advice, moreover from parents' but actually it's our right to decide.
And of course we have to be responsible for everything we have decide.

I did take a side because of one big problem.
And now my view changed because of something had happened.
And I think what I did is right, because I can see what I've been struggling for is not worth it.
I took side with him, but he didn't show any effort to solve the problem.
I better waste my time, my energy for someone who's really struggling now.

Making commitment is easy, but hard to keep.I'm keeping my promise , I want to stay faithful.Cause I know that someday I will be noticed if I keep doing it.And I hope I can get what I deserve.